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In Cougar Territory, Cubs Take the Lead

Barry A. Farber said "dating an older woman may free the man from the pressures of the -'baby hunger' that a relationship with a younger woman might bring."

In the swirl of attention around older women coupling with younger men, it seems the guys are increasingly the ones on the prowl.
Over the last year, Amber Soletti, a founder of OnSpeedDating.com, has been playing host monthly to “Cougar/Boy Toy” speed-dating events. And despite research to the contrary, it is the men, she and others say, who are clamoring for more.
 
Barry A. Farber, a psychotherapist and the director of the clinical psychology program at Teachers College at Columbia University, said “dating an older woman may free the man from the pressures of the ‘baby hunger’ that a relationship with a younger woman might bring.” An older woman, he added, “may well take him more seriously than a woman his own age and will overlook the relatively small flaws.”
 
The article “In Cougar Territory, Cubs Take the Lead” was published on November 14th, 2009 in the New York Times. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/15/fashion/weddings/15FIELD.html

 

Published Monday, Nov. 16, 2009

In Cougar Territory, Cubs Take the Lead

In the swirl of attention around older women coupling with younger men, it seems the guys are increasingly the ones on the prowl.
Over the last year, Amber Soletti, a founder of OnSpeedDating.com, has been playing host monthly to “Cougar/Boy Toy” speed-dating events. And despite research to the contrary, it is the men, she and others say, who are clamoring for more.
 
Barry A. Farber, a psychotherapist and the director of the clinical psychology program at Teachers College at Columbia University, said “dating an older woman may free the man from the pressures of the ‘baby hunger’ that a relationship with a younger woman might bring.” An older woman, he added, “may well take him more seriously than a woman his own age and will overlook the relatively small flaws.”
 
The article “In Cougar Territory, Cubs Take the Lead” was published on November 14th, 2009 in the New York Times. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/15/fashion/weddings/15FIELD.html

 

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